The Art of Listening

At the heart of lockdown many of our interactions with others were reduced to the phone or the new norm of life -  'Zoom'!  Whilst rejoicing in the means to stay in touch these brought their own challenges to good communication and healthy relationships. As we reflect not only on the lessons we might have learnt during lockdown but those that come from the ongoing restrictions placed on the way we can be with others, I wonder what we have discovered about our ability to listen?




As he reviews a new book about listening ('Habits of Grace'), Tim Challis draws
to our attention six lessons in good listening.
1. Good listening requires patience
2. Good listening is an act of love
3. Good listening asks perceptive questions
4. Good listening is ministry
5. Good listening prepares us to speak well
6. Good listening reflects our relationship with God

Flesh these out by reading his review. 




  

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